Lots of things happen that never fit into a neat profile you can write about. This afternoon I sifted back through all the photos I've taken since I arrived in Australia on September fifth. WOW. It's going to take a few
long winter nights to absorb everything I've seen and experienced. James called this morning. Of course
now we finally have the calling card option figured out - with only eight days to go until I fly home. Reinventing the wheel? You could call it that. Zenna got on the phone and I realized what love is all about. And then Tony. My San Antonio family. The best.
Now I am sitting in an outdoor cafe where I've finally accessed free Internet access. I've been paying by the megabyte - not uncommon for many folks around the globe. Subscribers have written to the Complex Cloth list in the past, politely requesting that members post to the group minus previous email parts of the conversation. Now I really get it. When you are paying by the kilobyte you pay close attention to the details.
I could digress, and since this is an assortment of observations, I will. When Zenna was maybe 13 years old, she and her best friend Ana frequently went into her room, closed the door and got on-line. Seemed innocent enough. One night, I had reason to go in and speak to them, and discovered they'd been on-line with some guy in England, posing as much older girls. Well. They were immediately ordered to write to him and admit their deception. I only hoped he wasn't a pervert who would actually be pleased they were underage. Deep breath. He wrote a scalding reply to them, centering on the reality of high Internet fees and the downside of misrepresentation. Case closed. They were good girls out for a lark. They didn't know.
This is how we figure out the world. We witness it, and then if we are lucky, people are honest with us. Or we witness it, and then, with some luck, we figure it out for ourselves.
Right now there is a wedding party across the street. They are taking pictures. Why they chose the Gucci storefront as their back drop is not something I understand. C'est la vie.
When I was in Melbourne, I passed a statue of one of the founding fathers - hm. Not sure how the average Australian would feel about the use of that term. As one friend pointed out, every time the Queen comes to visit, it costs several million dollars that could be spent on infrastructure. There was a seagull on his head, doing what seagulls do. You can't escape the irony.
On the ferry to Sydney, I spotted a boy sporting a San Antonio Spurs (our renowned basketball team) jersey. Number 21! Tim Duncan. Whoa. Only thing was, where could that have been printed? Or was it supposed to be an inside joke? Tim "Dunk"an? The young man was delighted to pose for a photo, and I suspect, almost asked for my autograph, since I'd actually seen Tim Duncan in action.
The market this morning. Small dog in pink sweater - oh, sorry - jumper - and requisite bow. Attracting more attention than the produce. Pets - now there's a topic we can all agree on.
And the signs. I wish I could post all of them. The government means business! For example, at every rail station there are signs warning pedestrians not to cross the tracks. YOUR FAMILY WON'T HAVE TO SCATTER YOUR ASHES, THE TRAIN WILL DO IT FOR YOU. or YOU'LL NEVER KNOW WHAT HIT YOU. Or what the poster says about tagging (spray painting where you aren't wanted.) EVEN THE TOUGH GUYS CRY THE FIRST NIGHT. (in prison, I assume.) I think this is good. Too many people take risks and don't consider the consequences. This isn't big brother. It's a family mentality. It's taking care of each other, even if it feels a bit rough.
But then there's the gentle side, and I love it. My favorite was the sign on the door to the Art Department at the College of Fine Arts in Sydney. It read, quite simply, "Please close the door gently. If not, it makes a lot of noise."
Don't you just love it when someone knows how to be tough when tough is required, and soft when it will do the trick?
Everyone should have the chance to come here.